25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish
A real man knows how to use his… Bible.
Guys must be immersed daily in the study and the devotional reading of the Bible. Why? So that we can Pastor our wives!
If you are single and you can’t maintain your quiet times then don’t get married because you can’t lead yourself just yet.
So, firstly this implies that I must be disciplined with my personal time in God’s Word.
Secondly, I must somehow share God’s word with my wife. Ask an older couple how they do that exactly. Every man is called to Pastor and Sheppard his family. It’s not the responsibility of the youth pastor to teach the kids about Jesus. No, it’s the dad’s. What kind of church is your family? What kind of Pastor are you or will you become? Is their spiritual impartation? Are gifts being developed and explored? Are you together on a mission? Is the worship good and passionate? Is their worship at all? Husbands are called to be the Spiritual leaders.